Where You Start Determines Where You Will End

A Prayer of David.

1 Incline your ear, O LORD, and answer me,
    for I am poor and needy.
2 Preserve my life, for I am godly;
    save your servant, who trusts in you—you are my God.
3 Be gracious to me, O Lord,
    for to you do I cry all the day.
4 Gladden the soul of your servant,
    for to you, O Lord, do I lift up my soul.
5 For you, O Lord, are good and forgiving,
    abounding in steadfast love to all who call upon you.
6 Give ear, O LORD, to my prayer;
    listen to my plea for grace.
7 In the day of my trouble I call upon you,
    for you answer me.

8 There is none like you among the gods, O Lord,
    nor are there any works like yours.
9 All the nations you have made shall come
    and worship before you, O Lord,
    and shall glorify your name.
10 For you are great and do wondrous things;
    you alone are God.
11 Teach me your way, O LORD,
    that I may walk in your truth;
    unite my heart to fear your name.
12 I give thanks to you, O Lord my God, with my whole heart,
    and I will glorify your name forever.
13 For great is your steadfast love toward me;
    you have delivered my soul from the depths of Sheol.

14 O God, insolent men have risen up against me;
    a band of ruthless men seeks my life,
    and they do not set you before them.
15 But you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious,
    slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness.
16 Turn to me and be gracious to me;
    give your strength to your servant,
    and save the son of your maidservant.
17 Show me a sign of your favor,
    that those who hate me may see and be put to shame
    because you, LORD, have helped me and comforted me. – Psalm 86:1-17 ESV

Most of us think we know what we want out of life. We have a general idea of what it takes to get the most out of our time on this planet, and it usually includes some or a lot of the following: Possessions, pleasure, prosperity, popularity, and power in some form or fashion. We have been sold a bill of goods that those things are what make life meaningful and bring joy and contentment.

But David, as the king of Israel, had all those things. He was powerful, wealthy, influential, and popular, but he had discovered that all of it was meaningless and incapable of bringing him peace. He knew there was more to life and that a vital relationship with God was what he really needed. So he prayed, "O LORD, teach me how you want me to live!" (Psalm 86:11 NET).

The Hebrew word David used is dereḵ, which can be translated as “path,” “way,” “manner,” or “direction.” It conveys the idea of a journey in the right direction. David is asking which road he must take to arrive at the destination God has ordained for him. He has an end in mind but knows that his hope of arriving at God’s preferred endpoint must begin at the right starting point.

The pursuit of possessions, pleasure, prosperity, popularity, and power will lead somewhere, but is it where God wants us to end up? Will they help us arrive at the place He has in mind? These things tend to lead us down a path that ends in pride, self-sufficiency, enslavement, discontentment, greed, covetousness, jealousy, fear, and anxiety. So David asks God to point him in the right direction, showing him the path to get him where he needs to be.

David continues his prayer: "…that I may live according to your truth." The Hebrew word translated "live" in this verse is hālaḵ, and it can be translated as "to walk" or, more figuratively, as "to live your life." David knows that living according to God's truth requires walking down the right path. We can't live according to God's will for our lives if we keep doing things our own way or pursuing our own agenda. David understands that it all begins with God pointing us in the right direction. We must know the right path to take if we are to walk in the right direction and discover the right way to live.

In the Book of Ephesians, Paul reminds his Gentile audience that they “used to live (peripateo) in sin, just like the rest of the world, obeying the devil – the commander of the powers in the unseen world" (Ephesians 2:2 NLT). The Greek word peripateo means "to walk or live your life." He is telling them that there was a time when they lived just like the rest of the world. But now they know better because they have taken a different path.

Therefore I, a prisoner for serving the Lord, beg you to lead a life (peripateo) worthy of your calling, for you have been called by God. – Ephesians 4:1 NLT

Now they are to conduct their lives according to God's road map for life. This path was to produce different results than their former life. It would lead to a different destination and produce a life of holiness, humility, gentleness, peace, patience, kindness, and unity. God’s way would result in selflessness, not selfishness.

In his psalm, David asks God to grant him “purity of heart" (Psalm 86:11 NLT). The NET Bible translates this request, "make me wholeheartedly committed to you!" He is asking for an undivided, fully committed heart that will stick to the path that God has shown him. David knew himself well, and understood that the allure of possessions, pleasure, prosperity, popularity, and power would always tempt him to take the path of least resistance. His son Solomon would later write, “There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death” (Proverbs 14:12 ESV). Jesus would expand on this thought in His Sermon on the Mount.

“You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way. But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it.” – Matthew 7:13-14 ESV

David knew that life was all about choices. He would have to take the right path if he wanted to end up where God wanted him to be. But he knew the world would offer him a wide range of options, tempting him to take a different path that offered a more promising destination. The allure of pleasure and prosperity can be intoxicating, and the promise of fame and fortune can be powerful. But David knew that only God’s path could help him arrive at the right destination and experience the joy of God’s favor and the hope of His blessings.

Like David, we need God to equip us with a single-minded devotion and commitment to remain true to His path and not deviate from it. His path and His path alone will get us where we need to be. His path will allow us to reach the destination He has in store for us. Any other path, no matter how promising it may appear, will take us places we don't want to go.

Father, keep me on Your path. Help me take my eyes off those other ways of life that can sometimes look so appealing. Constantly remind me that it is Your way that leads to life. It is Your path that is the only true path to joy, peace, contentment, hope, help, happiness, and eternal life. Amen

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Choices Have Consequences.

Proverbs 4

"Getting wisdom is the wisest thing you can do! And whatever else you do, develop good judgment." – Proverbs 4:7 NLT

Choosing to live wisely has its benefits, and the Proverbs lists them all. The wise life results in good judgment, guidance, protection, greatness, honor, good life, straight paths, light for the journey, the key to life, and healing, just to name a few. But we can all choose to reject the way of wisdom and find ourselves living like fools, and there are consequences that come with refusing wisdom. "But the way of the wicked is like total darkness. They have no idea what they are stumbling over" (Proverbs 4:19 NLT). That sounds pretty bleak, doesn't it? But think about it. If we refuse to live wisely, according to God's way, then we lack good judgement, we have no guidance, we find ourselves outside the protection of God, our lives are not marked by greatness and honor, our paths are crooked and difficult, and we find ourselves walking in darkness.

Oh, we may see individuals who are not Christ-followers who appear to be happy and successful, living care-free lives and enjoying what appear to be many of the benefits of a life of wisdom. But looks can be deceiving. What we fail to recognize and realize is that the benefits of wisdom are more internal than they are external. Walking according to God's way does not promise a life without difficulty or days without sorrow. But God does promise to give us the guidance we need and the peace required to make it through. He gives us light for the journey because the way can often times be dark and dangerous. He gives us good judgment, because too often we are faced with the task of making difficult decisions. He provides us with healing because we can become sick and weakened by constant exposure to the sin of this world. But those who choose to live foolishly, refusing to walk according to the wisdom of God, will always find themselves at a loss when tragedy strikes or times of difficulty come. Their possessions and prosperity will prove incapable of providing what they need. Their success will do little to help them survive. Choosing to live life without the wisdom of God will always have consequences. That's why Solomon warns us, "Mark out a straight path for your feet; stay on the straight path. Don't get sidetracked; keep your feet from following evil" (Proverbs 4:26-27 NLT). To follow evil is to reject God or refuse to live according to His terms. It is not referring to a life of complete and total debauchery. Wickedness is not talking about a life marked by pure evil. The wicked are those who are guilty of sin and hostile toward God. They live in opposition to God. They reject His way and walk according to their own agenda and obey their own rules. They live lives that are unpleasing to God, because their lives are not lived according to His desires. And their decision to live that way always has consequences. Living life according to God's terms is a choice – a daily choice. Seeking His wisdom and applying it to our lives is a lifelong endeavor. Applying His good judgment to the decisions of life is a daily requirement. But it has its benefits. It will bring life, peace, joy, guidance, direction, comfort, and enough light to guide our next step.

Father, help me to understand that my choices have consequences. Sometimes it is so easy to forget. I can convince myself that everything will work out just find, no matter what choice I make. But only a life marked by wisdom has benefits. Only living according to Your way results in blessing. Never let me forget that. Amen

The Value of Godly Counsel.

 Proverbs 6

"Wherever you walk, they’ll guide you; whenever you rest, they’ll guard you; when you wake up, they’ll tell you what’s next." – Proverbs 6:22 MSG

There is an art to listening. All of us can hear, but not all of us know how to listen well. And the few of us who do know how to listen sometimes struggle with doing something with what we hear – especially when it has to do with obeying the wise counsel we receive from others. This is especially true of young people. Which is why so many of the Proverbs are addressed to sons. Solomon wants his children to know the value of listening to godly counsel. In Proverbs 6 the assumption is that the commands and instructions given by the father and mother are godly and worth listening to. The son is told to obey the commands of his father and to not neglect the instructions of his mother. He is to value them and personally apply them to his life, keeping them in his heart and keeping them close like a valuable necklace or an expensive ring tied to a cord and hung around his neck.

So what's the value of godly counsel? It can provide guidance life's journey. Wise counsel is experienced counsel. It is based on the wisdom of God and has been proven out in real life. Wise counsel tends to speak from experience. It is able to say, "Do as I do, not just as I say." The godly counsel of parents and other well-traveled Christ-followers can save us a lot of pain, trouble, and wasted time from taking wrong turns and ending up in the wrong place at the wrong time. But not only does godly counsel guide, it guards and protects us – even in our sleep. Even when we're inactive, godly counsel makes sure we're save and sound. We can rest easy and sleep well knowing that we have made the right choices and followed the right path in life. We don't have to live anxiously or nervously waiting for the other shoe to drop and the walls of our life to cave in. We can know that we're on the right path and headed in the right direction. Finally, godly counsel speaks to us. It's amazing how the wise advise of others can crop up and pop into our minds at just the right moment. When we wake up in the morning, we have a repository of wise advise to which we can turn. It speaks to us. It counsels us. It prepares us for the day ahead. Like a lamp, it lights our path and shows us the right way to go. It keeps us on the straight and narrow and out of the high weeds of life.

Wise counsel is like good, nutritious food. It not only feeds us for the moment, but it equips us for the journey. It gives us the strength, energy and stamina to face all that lies ahead. It encourages, educates and equips us for life in this world. Without it we are lost, vulnerable to attack, and clueless as to what we should do and which way we should go.

Father, give me an insatiable desire for wisdom. Let me seek it from Your Word and also from Your people. Bring those into my life who have walked the path before me and who have strayed away but returned. Let me learn from their mistakes, grow from their experiences, and be guided by their wisdom. Amen