The Power to Love and Life Differently

9 Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good. 10 Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor. 11 Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord. 12 Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer. 13 Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.

14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. 15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep. 16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight. 17 Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. 18 If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. 19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” 20 To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. – Romans 12:9-21 ESV

As Paul did in his letter to the believers in Corinth, he follows his discussion of spiritual gifts with an emphasis on love. Chapter 12 of 1 Corinthians contains one of Paul’s most detailed treatments of the spiritual gifts, which he follows up with Chapter 13, his well-known and much-beloved exposition on love. And in our verses for today, Paul stresses the need for genuine love within the body of Christ, utilizing our Spirit-endowed gifts in our daily interactions with one another. This is the point in his letter where Paul gets painfully practical, illustrating the characteristics of true Christ-likeness. This section of his letter is filled with a lengthy list of commands that can come across as overly demanding, if not impossible to fulfill.

But he is not demanding adherence to a list of rules or regulations; he is calling for believers to live out their faith in the power of the Holy Spirit. Christianity is not to be some esoteric or academic pursuit, practiced in privacy and lived out in seclusion; it is to be relational and practical. The grace that God has shown us should be evident to and aimed at others. We are to love as we have been loved and to forgive as we have been forgiven, and our love is to be without hypocrisy. The Greek word Paul used is anypokritos and, as you can see, it is very similar to our word “hypocrisy.” In the Greek world, a hypocrite was a literal actor in a play. Through the use of a mask or disguise, the play-actor cleverly fooled his audience into believing he was someone else.   

Paul tells his readers that their love is to be without hypocrisy. There was to be no play-acting or artifice, pretense or pretending. Their love was to be genuine, heartfelt, and highly practical. And to ensure that his readers understood the difference, Paul gave a long list of examples of what that kind of love looks like for the believer.

Interestingly, Paul begins his treatise on love by encouraging his audience to hate all that is evil or wicked. Notice that Paul does not tell them to hate those who do wicked things. Instead, they were to despise the impact their own wickedness has on the lives of others. Their animosity was not directed toward people per se, but against evil itself and its devastating effects. If their love were to be without hypocrisy, they must know the difference between what is truly good and what is evil; they had to see things the way God does.

At its core, wickedness is anything that stands opposed to God and His will. The Book of Proverbs provides a short but decisive list of what God finds offensive and objectionable. 

There are six things the Lord hates—
    no, seven things he detests:
haughty eyes,
    a lying tongue,
    hands that kill the innocent,
a heart that plots evil,
    feet that race to do wrong,
a false witness who pours out lies,
    a person who sows discord in a family. – Proverbs 6:16-19 NLT

Notice that these are all relational issues that negatively impact others. In Paul’s list, he provides a counterpoint to these God-despised vices. We are to love one another like brothers. We are to outdo one another in showing honor rather than demanding it for ourselves. We are to be zealous and enthusiastic in serving the Lord by loving, honoring, and serving others. Our lives are to be marked by hope that translates into patience even in the midst of trials. We are to pray, give, and show hospitality to one another.

And here is where it gets really interesting. Paul tells us to bless those who persecute us. This should sound familiar, because Paul is simply expanding the words of Jesus from His Sermon on the Mount,

“God blesses you when people mock you and persecute you and lie about you and say all sorts of evil things against you because you are my followers. Be happy about it! Be very glad! For a great reward awaits you in heaven. And remember, the ancient prophets were persecuted in the same way.” – Matthew 5:11-12 NLT

And Jesus went on to describe how His followers were expected to live distinctively different lives.

“You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike. If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much. If you are kind only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else? Even pagans do that. But you are to be perfect, even as your Father in heaven is perfect.” – Matthew 5:43-48 NLT

Jesus was demanding perfection. Yet His Jewish audience had failed to keep the Mosaic Law. How would they live up to Jesus' more exacting and seemingly impossible commands?

Paul knew the answer. He understood that this alternative lifestyle could not be pulled off through sheer willpower. It was only through faith in Christ and the power of the indwelling Holy Spirit that this new lifestyle could be achieved. He, too, called for a life marked by empathy, harmony, the pursuit of peace, trust in God, and a willingness to suffer for the sake of our faith. These things are not easy, and they run counter to the ways of the world in which we live. But they are the characteristics of Christ. They are at odds with the self-centered focus that marks fallen man.

Yet, God has placed His Spirit within us so that the love and life of Christ may become evident through us. Our faith in Christ should be visible to both believers and non-believers alike by the way we live our lives in front of them. According to James, our faith is to have fruit. 

What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don’t show it by your actions? – James 2:14 NLT

Fruitless faith is no faith at all. God saved us in order to transform us into the likeness of His Son. We are to exhibit His character and model His behavior, not through our own self-effort, but through the power of God’s indwelling Spirit. Salvation isn’t just our ticket to heaven but the key to our sanctification. Our holiness is not to be a hypocritical display of self-produced playacting, but a visible demonstration of the Spirit’s presence and power in our lives. It is to be real and discernible to others as our faith produces the fruit of righteousness.

Father, You have called us to a life of holiness, but You do not expect us to pull it off in our own strength. You don’t provide a lengthy list of dos and don’ts and then demand that we keep them all. Instead, You provided Your Spirit to equip and empower us to live in keeping with Your will. As Peter put it, You gave us everything we need for life and godliness (2 Peter 1:3). You knew obedience was impossible for us to pull off, so You provided us with the power to do the impossible. Your Spirit produces the fruit of righteousness, not us. He alone can transform us into the likeness of Your Son by providing us with the strength to do Your will and to live according to Your ways. Despite our sinful flesh and the constant presence of a sin-stained world, we can live godly lives and not be overcome with evil. Instead, we can overcome evil with good. For the good of others and the glory of Your name. Amen

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Grace, Gratitude, and Growth

3 For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. 4 For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, 5 so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another. 6 Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, in proportion to our faith; 7 if service, in our serving; the one who teaches, in his teaching; 8 the one who exhorts, in his exhortation; the one who contributes, in generosity; the one who leads, with zeal; the one who does acts of mercy, with cheerfulness. – Romans 12:3-8 ESV

Up to this point, Paul has spent the entire letter defending man's justification on the basis of God’s grace and goodness, not human effort. Both Jews and Gentiles are made right with God in the same way, through faith in Christ alone. It is not based on heritage, race, background, income, achievement, or any other criteria. God said, “I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion” (Romans 9:15 ESV). So Paul concludes, “Then it depends not on human will or exertion, but on God, who has mercy” (Romans 9:16 ESV).

No one deserves God’s mercy. If we deserved it, it would no longer be mercy, because by definition, mercy is a choice, not an obligation. Mercy is not a payment by God for a job well done. When Paul speaks of the mercy of God, he means “the mercy and clemency of God in providing and offering to men salvation by Christ” (“Greek Lexicon :: G1656 (KJV).” Blue Letter Bible. Web. 21 Dec, 2015. <http://www.blueletterbible.orghttps://www.blueletterbible.org/lang/lexicon/lexicon.cfm>).

God’s mercy is undeserved. In fact, rather than giving us what we deserve, which is the essence of justice, God gives us what we don’t deserve. He extends unmerited grace in the form of salvation and justification made possible through faith in His Son. And grace is a divine prerogative that has nothing to do with man’s worthiness or works. And Paul has emphasized that without God’s mercy, no man would ever experience a right relationship with Him.

Jew and Gentile are the same in this respect. They have the same Lord, who gives generously to all who call on him. For “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” – Romans 10:12-13 NLT

So there is no reason for anyone to think more highly of himself. The Gentiles to whom Paul was writing were not to become prideful because God had taken away the message of salvation from the Jews and given it to them. The Jewish believers were not to boast in their heritage as descendants of Abraham. None of that mattered. Instead, each was to “think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned” (Romans 12:3 ESV).

Our place in the body of Christ is not based on the amount of faith we conjure up. Salvation is not a competition and leaves no room for comparison. Each of us enjoys a relationship with Christ because of God’s mercy and grace. We have been placed in the body of Christ by God, each “having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us” (Romans 12:6 ESV). Even our spiritual gifts are a gift from God; we didn’t bring them with us. Spiritual gifts are not human abilities on steroids; they are supernatural enablements, provided by the Spirit of God. And those Spirit-embued gifts are intended for the building up of the body of Christ. Paul told the Ephesian believers that God “makes the whole body fit together perfectly. As each part does its own special work, it helps the other parts grow, so that the whole body is healthy and growing and full of love.” (Ephesians 4:16 NLT).

Our gifts are given to us by the grace of God, and we are to use them humbly and selflessly. They are not intended to boost our egos or inflate our sense of self-worth, but to build up the body of Christ. When writing to the church in Corinth, Paul addressed their misunderstanding and misuse of spiritual gifts, which had led them to turn their gifts into badges of honor. Their God-given gifts had become divisive, with members of the church bragging over the particular gifts that they had. Paul had to sternly remind them, “To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good” (1 Corinthians 12:7 ESV).

Each of them had a spiritual gift “empowered by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually as he wills” (1 Corinthians 12:11 ESV). There was no reason to boast or brag because the apportionment of the gifts had been God’s doing.

God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. If all were a single member, where would the body be? As it is, there are many parts, yet one body. – 1 Corinthians 12:18-20 ESV

Our salvation is the work of God. In the same way, our justification or right standing before God is the result of His mercy, not our merit. Our place in the body of Christ was determined by Him, not us. Our spiritual gifts were given to us by His Spirit and intended for the building up of the body of Christ. There is nothing about our relationship with Christ or our place in His family for which we have a right to boast.

We should use our gifts “according to the grace given to us.” A recognition of God’s grace should always motivate our actions and attitudes. Like the psalmist, we should daily remind ourselves of God’s sovereign will over our lives.

Shout with joy to the Lord, all the earth!
   Worship the Lord with gladness.
    Come before him, singing with joy.
Acknowledge that the Lord is God!
    He made us, and we are his.
    We are his people, the sheep of his pasture. – Psalm 100:1-3 NLT

We are His people, not because we deserved it, but as a result of His marvelous grace.

Father, grace is a difficult concept for us to grasp because we have had the mindset of merit wired into our brains since birth. We have been raised on a works-based mentality that promises rewards for a  job well done, But because You are holy, You demand perfect righteousness from Your people. And because of sin, no one can measure up to Your standards. We all fall short. Paul made this clear when he wrote, “For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard. Yet God, in his grace, freely makes us right in his sight. He did this through Christ Jesus when he freed us from the penalty for our sins” (Romans 3:23-24 NLT).

Yet, despite this reminder of marvelous grace, we keep trying to earn Your favor through self-effort. Even after coming to salvation, we turn our backs on Your grace and attempt to live the Christian life on our own strength. But as you pointed out to Paul, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness” (2 Corinthians 12:9 NLT). You don’t demand righteousness; You provide it. You don’t require holiness; You make it possible. Our salvation, sanctification, and ultimate glorification are up to You, not us. We get to participate, but only as we humbly submit to Your will, rely on Your Spirit, and rest in Your amazing grace. Amen

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The Mindset of Mercy, Not Merit

1 I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. 2 Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. – Romans 12:1-2 ESV

Here Paul makes a transition from talking about God’s relationship with the Jews in general to the conduct of believers in particular. He has been addressing the issue of justification or how to be made right with God, based on the grace of God and not the efforts of man. Whether Jew or Gentile, every man and woman is justified before God by faith in Christ alone; human effort has nothing to do with it. But Paul does not want to leave his readers with the false impression that behavior is no longer a part of the equation. The salvation God offers through the death of His Son should result in a dramatic change in how we live. Paul has already addressed this on two different occasions.

Do not let any part of your body become an instrument of evil to serve sin. Instead, give yourselves completely to God, for you were dead, but now you have new life. So use your whole body as an instrument to do what is right for the glory of God. – Romans 6:13 NLT

Previously, you let yourselves be slaves to impurity and lawlessness, which led ever deeper into sin. Now you must give yourselves to be slaves to righteous living so that you will become holy. – Romans 6:19 NLT

In light of all that God has done for us, our response should reflect our deep gratitude. In Chapter 5, Paul wrote, “Therefore, since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us” (Romans 5:1 NLT). Because of the sacrifice that Christ made on our behalf, giving Himself as our sin substitute on the cross, we have been restored to a right relationship with God, and He alone made it all possible. He sent His Son to die on our behalf, sacrificing what was most precious to Him so that we could be given new life and a restored relationship with Him.

As Paul pointed out in Chapter 8, the benefits of this gracious gift of God are beyond measure.

So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. And because you belong to him, the power of the life-giving Spirit has freed you from the power of sin that leads to death. – Romans 8:1-2 NLT

Those who place their faith in Jesus no longer live under the Damocles sword of sin’s condemnation. With the threat of eternal separation from God eliminated, it no longer serves as our motivation for right behavior. Striving to live righteously to earn God's favor is a thing of the past. Now, any attempts we make to live in a manner that is pleasing to God are done in the power of the Holy Spirit, not the flesh. We pursue righteousness out of thankfulness for all that God has done for us, not in some vain attempt to buy our way into His good graces.

Our desire to live for God is no longer motivated by fear, nor is it based on a hope that what we do can earn enough points with God to make Him accept us. In this lifetime, our behavior is not about earning God’s grace; it is about living according to the grace He has extended to us through the death of His Son. He has given us new life and is transforming us into new creations. We are already His children, adopted into His family and heirs of all that is His. We don’t have to make God love us; He already does, and the gift of His Son was the greatest expression of His love.

But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners. – Romans 5:8 NLT

So Paul urges us to present our bodies as “living sacrifices.” Our death is not required because the death penalty for our sins has already been paid in full. Our motivation for offering ourselves to God is His unmerited mercy and grace. Unlike most sacrifices, in which the one making the sacrifice seeks mercy from God, we are offering ourselves because of the mercy we have already received from God. God has shown us mercy by delivering us from condemnation. Rather than giving us what we deserved, He showered us with His grace, and we should be eternally grateful.

So what does our “living sacrifice” look like? How are we to conduct ourselves in this world as a result of all that God has done for us? Paul gives us a negative and a positive aspect to our behavior. First of all, we are NOT to be conformed to this world. The Greek word, syschēmatizō means “to conform one's self (i.e. one's mind and character) to another's pattern, (fashion one's self according to)” (Outline of Biblical Usage).

We are not to pattern ourselves after the ways of this world. When Paul refers to the “world,” he is speaking of the pervasive mindset of our culture that seeks to exclude God. It is a man-centered way of thinking that diminishes God and deifies man. Ever since the fall, humanity has attempted to make man the center of the universe. Our relentless pursuit of autonomy drives us to satisfy our self-centered passions.

But as followers of Christ, we are not to follow the example of this world. We have been separated from this world by God. As Jesus said, we are to live in it, but not be a part of it.

“The world would love you as one of its own if you belonged to it, but you are no longer part of the world. I chose you to come out of the world, so it hates you.” – John 15:19 NLT

We are to live separate and distinct lives. But how? Paul gives us a critical and non-negotiable requirement for pulling off this seemingly impossible behavioral transformation. It entails the “renewal” of our minds. We are to undergo a radical makeover of the way we think. When Paul spoke of renewal, he used the Greek word anakainōsis, which refers to “a renewal, renovation, complete change for the better” (Outline of Biblical Usage). It begins in our minds, the center of our thoughts. We must constantly remind ourselves of all that God has done for us. Not only was He responsible for our salvation, but He is the one who makes possible our sanctification. We must constantly consider the fact that our transformation into the likeness of His Son is His doing, not ours.

By focusing on the divine nature of our sanctification, we can begin to eliminate our self-help mentality and lean on the assistance of the indwelling Holy Spirit. It is as we live in constant dependence upon God and His transforming power that we begin to grasp His will for our lives.

As Paul so succinctly put it, “God’s will is for you to be holy…” (1 Thessalonians 4:3 NLT). That is His overarching objective for our lives. Nothing more, nothing less. And when we present ourselves as living sacrifices to God, we tell Him that we want what He wants. We express our desire to be used by Him, however He sees fit, for our good and His glory.

Father, we live in a merit-based society where getting what you deserve starts with hard work. We truly believe you can’t get something for nothing. You have to earn it and, when you’ve done all that was expected, you deserve to be paid in full for your efforts. But You operate on a different model. In Your ecomony, mercy trumps merit every time. In the world, it's all about earning your way to the top. In the Kingdom, it’s all about accepting the free gift of grace that You have made available through faith in Your Son. Paul pointed out the difference in Chapter 4.

When people work, their wages are not a gift, but something they have earned. But people are counted as righteous, not because of their work, but because of their faith in God who forgives sinners. – Romans 4:4-5 NLT

But it is so hard to let go our merit-obsessed mindset. Even after coming to faith in Christ, we keep trying to earn our way into your good graces. We have a difficult time accepting that Your love for us is not somehow tied to our behavior. When we fail to live up to Your holy standards, we become convinced that Your love for us has dimished. But, as Paul reminds us, “nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 8:38-39 NLT). Amen

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A Radically Different Life.

Romans 12:17-21

If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals of shame on their heads. – Romans 12:20 NLT

Paul continues to offer his readers practical application of the theological truths he has unpacked for the last 11 chapters. This is where-the-rubber-meets-the-road kind of stuff. He is giving them everyday applications of what it means to live in freedom from sin, forgiven, justified, filled with the Spirit and as a recipient of God's marvelous grace. Our vertical relationship with God, restored by the sacrificial death of Christ on the cross, must be matched by a change in our horizontal relationships – including the ones we have with believers and unbelievers. And what Paul lays out is a radically different version of life on this planet than what most of us know or experience.

First, he tells us to refrain from responding to wrong with more wrong. "Never pay back evil with more evil" (Romans 12:17 NLT). But isn't that they normal human response. It's almost a reflex action. We inherently react to anything done to us that we consider harmful or hurtful with more of the same. It's a natural human defense mechanism. "You hurt me and I'll hurt you!" But Paul reminds us that life for the Christian is to be different – radically so. Rather than respond to evil with more evil, we are to "Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody" (Romans 12:17b NIV). Our concern should be for our witness, not revenge. Elsewhere, Paul tells us to "Live wisely among those who are not believers, and make the most of every opportunity" (Colossians 4:5 NLT). In fact, we are to go out of our way to live in harmony and peace with all men. This does not mean that we are to seek peace at all costs or to refrain from having convictions when it comes to the truth of God and the integrity of the Word of God. There will be occasions where we must stand up for what we know to be right, and that will result in conflict. But overall, we are to pursue a life of harmony and peace with all men – whether they are believers or not.

At the end of the day, revenge is to be left up to God. Our job is not to seek revenge or to demand justice for all the wrongs done to us. No, Paul reminds us that our ministry is one of reconciliation. "For God was in Christ, reconciling the world to himself, no longer counting people’s sins against them. And he gave us this wonderful message of reconciliation" (2 Corinthians 5:19 NLT). Our job is to call people back to God. Rather than revenge, we are to seek reconciliation, restoration and redemption. How do we even remotely begin to do that? Paul gives us a glimpse at the answer. "If your enemies are hungry, feed them. If they are thirsty, give them something to drink" (Romans 12:19-20 NLT). What a radically different approach to conflict resolution than what the world offers. Instead of responding in hate, we are to express love. Rather than seeking to get even, we are to give sacrificially. While this method of dealing with enemies may appear to be a bit naive and unrealistic, it's intention is to bring shame and conviction on those whose intent it is to harm us. Rather than justify their hatred for us, we convict them by responding in a way that does not fit with their perception or expectation of us. Jesus said very similar words in His sermon on the mount. "But to you who are willing to listen, I say, love your enemies! Do good to those who hate you. Bless those who curse you. Pray for those who hurt you. If someone slaps you on one cheek, offer the other cheek also. If someone demands your coat, offer your shirt also. Give to anyone who asks; and when things are taken away from you, don’t try to get them back. Do to others as you would like them to do to you" (Luke 6:27-31 NLT). This is the "Golden Rule." It is a picture of life lived according to God's standard and not the world's.

We have been called to a different kind of life, marked by a different set of standards. Paul closes this chapter with the words, "Don't let evil conquer you, but conquer evil with good" (Romans 12:21 NLT). Rather than give in to the temptation to respond to evil with more evil, and fulfill the expectations of our enemy and meet the standards of this fallen world, we are to react with sacrificial, selfless love. But isn't that impossible? Only if we attempt to do it in our own strength. But God has given us His Spirit and His Word to empower and equip us with all that we need to live radically different lives in a world that desperately needs a dose of reconciliation.

Father, this is hard stuff to read. And it's even harder to live out in real life. But I know You have given us all that we need to live in a way that is pleasing to You. We have the power to live radically different lives. Continue to change us and motivate us to live radical, revolutionary lives. Help us live like Christ lived. Help us love like Christ loved. Help us sacrifice like He did. All for Your glory and, ultimately, the good of man. Amen.

What Difference Does It Make?

Romans 12:1-16

And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. – Romans 12:1 NLT

Paul launches this next section of his letter with the words, "And so…." Some translations use the word, "Therefore…." Which reminds me of an old adage that says, when you see the word, therefore, in Scripture, always ask what it's there for. What is the writer trying to tell you? It is almost always used as a transition from one train of thought to another. It is used to tie when section to another, and so it is here as Paul makes his transition from the end of chapter 11 to the beginning of chapter 12. Up until this point in his letter Paul has been stressing the sin of man and the grace of God. He has stressed the universality of man's sinful state and his inability to save Himself. He has spoken of God's gracious gift of salvation made possible through His Son's death on the cross. He has contrasted faith and works. He has reminded his readers of the freedom found in Christ – freedom from having to try and keep the Law in order to have a right relationship with God. He has written of God's mercy, love and faithfulness – illustrated in His plan to fulfill every single promise He has made to the people of Israel – despite their constant unfaithfulness to Him.

And then Paul says, "And so…." With all of that in mind, here is what we are to do. This is where Paul moves from the theological to the practical. As a result of all that he has told us about God, man, sin, salvation, the Spirit, freedom, grace, mercy, eternity, and love, here is how we should respond. Paul pleads with us to give our bodies to God as living and holy sacrifices. Why? Because of all He has done for us. Paul is going to begin with what our reaction should be to God. That is the most important relationship any man can have. All of our other earthly relationships with human beings are insignificant and immaterial if we do not have a right relationship with God. So Paul begs us to respond to God's mercy, grace, goodness, sovereignty and love with an attitude of willing submission. We are to offer ourselves to Him for His use. In doing so we are acknowledging that we belong to Him and Him alone. Elsewhere Paul wrote, "You do not belong to yourself, for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body" (1 Corinthians 6:19-20 NLT). But it is interesting to notice that Paul's emphasis is on the group, not the individual in his letter to the Romans. He pleads with them to give "your bodies" as a living sacrifice. It is to be a group effort, not an individual one. Paul is going to stress what it looks like to live as a holy sacrifice to God and it is going to involve our interactions with one another as believers and our relationships with non-believing world in which we live.

Paul exhorts them to NOT copy the behaviors and customs of this world. As a group, they are to live lives that are set apart and distinct from the world around them. Part of living as a sacrifice to God is allowing Him to do with us as He wishes. And part of God's desire for us is to transform the way we think. He wants to renew our minds and transform us into the likeness of His Son. And there's no better way to see that transformation take place than in our relationships with one another. Paul makes it painfully practical. "Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us" (Romans 12:3b NLT). When God starts changing the way we think, we will see ourselves and others differently. Rather than living lives marked by pride and self-centeredness, we will begin to display humility toward others and develop a healthy assessment of who we are in Christ. We will understand that God has placed us in the body of Christ, given us gifts for the good of the body, and challenged us to live with and love one another. And we are not to live hypocritically or insincerely. Our love must be real, involving self-sacrifice and eager enthusiasm. As God transforms our way of thinking, we will begin to even bless those who persecute us. In other words, we'll develop the capacity to love the unloving and unlovely. We'll learn to love in ALL of our relationships and in all circumstances, developing a harmony and unity that is not of this world.

That kind of living is holy, sacrificial living. It is pleasing and honoring to God, because it reveals the very power of God in our lives. No one can live and love that way unless God makes it possible. It takes the saving work of Jesus Christ and the indwelling power of the Holy Spirit to bring about that kind of radical transformation. But we must choose to offer ourselves as sacrifices to God, for Him to do with as He wishes. It all begins there – with a willing submission to the will of God. We must constantly give in to Him so that He can impart into us. In the end, this kind of life is the greatest form of worship to God.

Father, continue to show me how to live out this passage. It is so easy to talk about being living sacrifices, but it is another thing to live it out in real life. I keep wanting to crawl down off the altar. But I really do want to see You continue to change the way I think and transform my behavior. And I realize that the greatest illustration of those things taking place will be in how I react to and relate with others. That includes not only my fellow believers, but the lost world around me. Amen.