suffer the children

Lessons on Leadership and Leastness

13 And they were bringing children to him that he might touch them, and the disciples rebuked them. 14 But when Jesus saw it, he was indignant and said to them, “Let the children come to me; do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. 15 Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.” 16 And he took them in his arms and blessed them, laying his hands on them. – Mark 10:13-16 ESV

Sometimes it seems as if Jesus’ 12 disciples are a few bricks short of a full load, and this occasion is one of them. After reading this passage, it’s difficult not to draw one of two conclusions: Either the disciples are stubborn or simply stupid; they just don’t seem to get it. No matter how many times Jesus addresses an issue with them, they fail to grasp His meaning. Even all His after-class, one-on-twelve tutoring sessions don’t seem to help.

Before we look at the scene in today’s passage, let’s revisit a few earlier, closely related exchanges between Jesus and His disciples. First, while they were back in Galilee, Jesus overheard the disciples arguing over who was the greatest. This debate came fast on the heels of Jesus’ announcement that He would soon be delivered into the hands of men and be killed (Mark 9:31). So, immediately after hearing Jesus announce that He was going to lay down His life, they got into a heated argument over which of them was the greatest. This led Jesus to give them an object lesson.

And he took a child and put him in the midst of them, and taking him in his arms, he said to them, “Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me, and whoever receives me, receives not me but him who sent me.” – Mark 9:36-37 ESV

Jesus used this small, seemingly insignificant child to drive home an important point. With the prideful disciples gathered around Him, Jesus stood among them, holding this unnamed child in His arms. He placed the least significant in the place of greatest prominence. The child had done nothing to earn the special favor Jesus extended to Him. He was not powerful, impressive, gifted, or even capable of repaying Jesus for His kindness. We’re not even told his name. But the child trusted and was willing to place his full confidence in Jesus.

Yet, immediately after witnessing this living object lesson, John brought up what he believed was a more pressing matter. He reported that an unnamed individual had been casting out demons in Jesus’ name. This unidentified competitor concerned the disciples so much that they repeatedly tried to issue him cease-and-desist orders, but their efforts failed. John told Jesus, hoping He would shut down this rogue exorcist. But instead, Jesus rebuked His own disciples.

“Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were hung around his neck and he were thrown into the sea.” – Mark 9:42 ESV

The Greek word Mark uses is mikros, meaning “small” or “least.” Jesus seems to be referring to this unknown exorcist as one of His children. Although he wasn't one of the 12 disciples, this man was casting out demons in the name of Jesus. He was performing the same good deed that Jesus had commissioned His disciples to do. That’s why Jesus told John, “Don’t stop him!…No one who performs a miracle in my name will soon be able to speak evil of me. Anyone who is not against us is for us” (Mark 9:39 NLT). This man was on their side. Yet Jesus calls him one of the “least.” He was so insignificant that the disciples didn’t even know his name. However, he was important to Jesus. 

This brings us back to the scene taking place in chapter 10. Jesus and His disciples are back in the region of Perea, just east of Judea on the other side of the Jordan River. Mark opens this chapter by noting that Jesus’ arrival in the region drew the usual large crowds. While many hoped to see Jesus perform a miracle, others came out of curiosity because Jesus was a 1st-century celebrity. But Mark indicates that some “were bringing children to him that he might touch them” (Mark 10:13 ESV). Evidently, parents brought their young children to Jesus so He might bless them. But Mark states that “the disciples rebuked them” (Mark 9:13 ESV). These men took it upon themselves to restrict access to Jesus. They wrongly assumed they had the authority to decide who was worthy to enter Jesus’ presence.

This whole scene makes even more sense when you consider Luke’s account. He provides essential details that make the disciples' actions even more egregious. He records a parable Jesus told “to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and treated others with contempt” (Luke 18:9 ESV). In this parable, “Two men went up into the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector” (Luke 18:10 ESV). The Pharisee stood before God and, in a blatant display of self-promotion, bragged about his superior righteousness, evidenced by his unparalleled fasting and tithing. But the other man stood before God, eyes lowered, and declared his abject sinfulness and desperate need for mercy. And then Jesus said, “Everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted” (Luke 18:14 ESV).

Superiority and inferiority. Pride and humility. Greatness and weakness. This parable prefaces the arrival of the parents with their children and explains why Jesus became so indignant with His disciples and demanded, “Let the children come to me; do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God” (Mark 10:14 ESV). Their parents brought the children to Jesus. Too young to come on their own, they were at the mercy of others, showing complete dependence and trust. They showed no self-righteousness or moral superiority, yet the disciples deemed them unworthy to enter Jesus’ presence. Had these men so quickly forgotten the young boy Jesus had held in His arms? Had the words Jesus spoken to them simply gone in one ear and out the other?

“Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me, and whoever receives me, receives not me but him who sent me.” – Mark 9:37 ESV

Yet here was Jesus having to rebuke them again for their arrogant display of moral superiority. They didn’t get it. They were still harboring their own false conceptions about status in the Kingdom. In their eyes, children were non-contributors because they had nothing to offer. They were takers, not givers. But Jesus had a different perspective. To the disciples’ surprise, Jesus “took the children in his arms and placed his hands on their heads and blessed them” (Mark 10:16 NLT).

The disciples had been right; these “little ones” had nothing to offer Jesus, but Jesus had something to give them: His divine blessing. They came before Jesus as helpless and hopeless children, most likely carried in the arms of their parents. Some were probably too young to walk or talk. But each one, regardless of age, intellect, family background, or prospects for success, received the same undeserved gift from Jesus' hand. The Son of God touched and blessed each one.

The Kingdom of God will not be comprised of the successful, gifted, morally exceptional, intellectually superior, or socially acceptable. In fact, Paul reminds every Christ-follower that their adoption into the family of God had nothing to do with them. They brought nothing to the table and did nothing to deserve the grace and mercy God showed them.

Remember, dear brothers and sisters, that few of you were wise in the world’s eyes or powerful or wealthy when God called you. Instead, God chose things the world considers foolish in order to shame those who think they are wise. And he chose things that are powerless to shame those who are powerful. God chose things despised by the world, things counted as nothing at all, and used them to bring to nothing what the world considers important. As a result, no one can ever boast in the presence of God. – 1 Corinthians 1:26-29 NLT

Jesus had repeatedly shown His disciples that He had come to minister to the weak, helpless, and hopeless. He went out of His way to heal the sick and minister to the outcasts and socially unacceptable. He exposed the hypocrisy of the self-righteous religious leaders of Israel. He willingly associated with tax collectors and prostitutes. Yet His disciples still struggled with thoughts of their own superiority and hoped to earn a place of honor and distinction in His coming Kingdom.

But the lessons would continue until the end. Even in the upper room on the night Jesus was betrayed, He gave them another illustration of humility and service by washing their feet. Ultimately, Jesus performed the greatest act of humility by offering His life as a ransom for many. The greatest of all would become the least of all so that the foolish, the powerless, the despised, and the unimportant might become children of God.

The disciples continued to wrestle with how their concept of leadership differed from Jesus'. His emphasis on “the least of these” didn’t make sense to them. Not only that, it was unattractive and uninspiring. They were interested in prominence and power. In fact, Matthew records that 10 of the disciples became indignant when they overheard the mother of James and John ask Jesus, “In your Kingdom, please let my two sons sit in places of honor next to you, one on your right and the other on your left” (Matthew 20'21 NLT). 

Rather than rebuke the well-meaning mother, Jesus addressed James and John.

“You don’t know what you are asking! Are you able to drink from the bitter cup of suffering I am about to drink?” – Matthew 20:22 NLT

Unaware of the meaning behind Jesus’ question, the two men responded, “Oh yes…we are able!” (Matthew 20:22 NLT). They had no idea that He was talking about His arrest, trials, and crucifixion. Had they known about the two thieves who would be crucified on either side of Jesus, they would never have had their mother pose the question.

Sensing the other disciples' jealousy, Jesus gave them another lesson on servant leadership.

“You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must become your slave. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.” – Matthew 20:25-28 NLT

The disciples had a lot to learn, and time was running out. But Jesus would patiently continue to teach and model the life of “the least of these.” Every day, He would sacrifice and serve, loving the lowly, feeding the hungry, healing the hurting, and calling the hopeless to place their trust in Him. This wasn’t what the disciples had signed up for, but it was why they were called. And, one day, it would all make sense. 

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